Be Grateful, Be Gracious
It’s quite natural for people to be judgemental, whether it is of people, food, service, comfort or anything else. However, just because you may have judged something as bad doesn’t mean you shouldn’t still be grateful. For example, you purchase a meal, with your hard earned money, at a restaurant and you don’t like how it tastes. Now a lot of people might whine and complain about such an incident and refuse to eat it, demand something better or refuse to pay. What I’m suggesting is that you realise and be grateful for the money you have which enabled you to go to a restaurant and buy a meal in the first place. Remember it should also be considered a luxury that you have the option, if you choose, to refuse to eat it. A lot of people don’t have any of these luxuries at all; some people are unable to walk into a restaurant and order a meal and would be shocked to see anyone refuse food just because they didn’t like the taste. Some people would dream of being able to sit in a restaurant and have people running around for them to make sure they are satisfied.
Make note of the fact that someone is cooking and serving a meal for you then cleaning up for you afterwards while you do nothing but give them a little bit of money. You may still feel the need to say something about your disappointment but consider doing this graciously and with gratitude thereby keeping a level of peaceful dignity around you, also such an attitude is certainly better for your health.
Being grateful is a significant quality for anyone to have but it is absolutely essential when developing the right mindset for an abundant lifestyle. It may not be that difficult to be grateful for your health or your family or any of the more obvious things that come to mind, but I want to encourage you to look for things you may not normally consider being grateful for. There is always a way to turn a negative experience into something positive, developing the habit of looking for things to be grateful for helps you to find the positives in life. The dictionary defines gracious as ‘Characterised by kindness and warm courtesy’, add a touch of that to your day and see how much better you feel at the end of it. If someone is rude or unkind, still be gracious, and through them out a little bit, who knows how it may change their attitude for the rest of the day, it will most probably make you feel better anyway. So I challenge you to look for more opportunities in your life to be grateful and gracious and see for yourself what a difference it can make.
Thank you for reading
Arren Vidal





